Is Collaborative Law The Right Choice?
There are many differences in collaborative law vs. traditional law especially when it comes to the divorce process. With Collaborative lawyers, and supporting professionals, you are provided a framework to encourage both partners to focus on their primary concerns and developing workable solutions around them. And because your Lawyers are Collaborative Law specialists, their focus is on being problem-solvers verus sparring adversaries.
Because Collaborative Law does not rely on the court to make decisions about your future through excessive paperwork filed in public records, you can keep your private life private.
Collaborative Law maybe right for you if:
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You are able to communicate effectively with your spouse
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You do not feel that you have enough knowledge about finances
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You need someone to stand up for you for your rights
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You have a very passive spouse that will not cooperate unless forced into action
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You want to be able to pursue litigation with your attorney
Collaborative Law may not work if:
You suspect there are hidden assets
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You need court protection such as restraining orders
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You don’t trust your spouse to have integrity
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There is domestic violence or abuse to your children
If the Collaborative Law process appeals to you, you will first need to select a collaborative attorney who fits your needs and makes you comfortable. If you are already working with an attorney, ask the attorney to explore the possibility of using collaborative law protocols.
Next, talk with your spouse or partner about the collaborative process to ensure that you are both willing to utiilize this approach. Your attorney may be able to assist you by writing a letter and/or providing information regarding the collaborative process for your spouse or partner. Your spouse or partner should then select a collaboratively-minded attorney. Once the attorneys have been selected, the process can begin.
For more information about collaborative law see www.respectfuldivorce.com
Karin E. Quirk