Is a Cooperative Divorce Right For You?
Choosing a cooperative divorce means that you value an approach that focuses on the needs of the entire family. If you answer "Yes" to most of the questions below, a cooperative process is right for you.
- Are you more interested in moving on with your life than in perpetuating a marital battle in court?
- Do you want to be in control of your future, including custody and financial support issues, rather than relying on a court's decision?
- Do you want your divorce to be between you and your spouse and not aired in public?
- Do you want to end the emotional battle--the anger, upset and fighting?
- Do you want to be treated with respect and dignity during your divorce process?
If you have children:
- Do you and your partner feel your children are your primary responsibility when making financial plans?
- Do you want to preserve your children's emotional health during and after the divorce?
- Do you want your children to be able to invite both their parents to all the special events in their life?
The Benefits of a Cooperative Divorce
- Helps you to maintain your sense of integrity and respect
- Saves you money and emotional energy
- Works within your time frame not the lawyers The terms of your settlement will not be filed with the court.
- Employers are not involved in the discovery process
- Family, friends and co-workers are not pulled into your divorce
The Benefits To Your Children:
- Reduces the negative emotional impact of divorce
- Allows for better relationships with both parents
- Provides better modeling for conflict resolution
Karin E. Quirk